Confidence is simply your mind being free of all worry. Worry that someone or something will hurt you. Worry that people do not like you. Worry that the world is dangerous, that money is scarce, that were not talented enough. These worries keep us in a state of fear which then peels away at our confidence in ourselves that nothing can hurt us, that we are always looked after and taken care of no matter who we are with or where we choose to go. Begin to practice thoughts that make you feel stronger, hang around people that are uplifting and comforting to you, watch shows that make you laugh and relax in the knowledge that your nature is strength and well-being.
Once you get your thoughts under control, your natural state of confidence will emerge.
Enjoy your journey to wholeness.