You Are Important
Be more interested in perfecting who you are than thinking about someone else. You are the most important person in your life and you deserve your attention and involvement in who you are becoming. No one else matters. Once you are happy with who you are, everyone and everything else will fall into place. There are those who will say that you are being selfish when you think of only yourself. Well, I guess I am selfish because when I'm not happy with what's going on in my life I can not give someone else happiness. I can try but trying never gets anyone anywhere. Trying comes into play when one is feeling desperate to create what they don't have. Ease and joy is the only way to go.
Focus on you and what you desire and you will notice that everyone around you will benefit from your joy and happiness with where you are.
Enjoy your journey to wholeness.